I sent a pay for delete letter by certified mail along with return receipt requested to my credior,?

I sent a pay for delete letter by certified mail along with return receipt requested to my credior, in the letter I gave them 15 days to respond or else I would take further action. 20 business days have ped and they still the have not responded. what can I do. If 30 days p can I dispute this debt. Is this pay to delete letter considered a debt validation letter?

A minimum of 2,500 calories?

I have been struggling with my weight and eating issues since about September. I am 5'4" and currently weigh around 78 pounds. I am eating 1,000-1,100 calories a day, at the most. I know that's not a lot, but it's double or even a little more than double what I used to eat. I have always been skinny my whole life, but at this height, I used to always weigh around 95-98 pounds. I think I was 100 at my most at this height. Anyway, I am trying to recover, and I am going to see a nutritionist for the first time this upcoming week. A few people who have recovered from anorexia have told me that you need to eat a minimum of 2,000-2,500 calories a day to restore your metabolism. If anyone has done this, can you tell me if that is true and how it went for you? I can't imagine eating that much and not gaining a ton of weight, but girls have told me that they need that, sometimes more, to even maintain weight. Why is that the case when other people who are recovering say they gain like crazy on very little? I am so confused and scared. I don't want to gain a ton of weight. 10 pounds would be more than enough for me. Thank you for listening and hopefully for the advice.

How do I control the speed on a Triptronic Yaris when doing maneuvers?

I have recently brought a triptronic yaris, It's a perfect car but theres jsut two problems which are cousing major problems for me, 1st is at steepy hills, where the speed suddenly drops, which is rather bad when they are cars are the back of you! and the other main problem is when doing manouvours and reversing, becouse they is no clutch I am unable to control speed - I am driving in 'E' mode which i presume is like 'D' in an auto. How do I conbat this problem without selling my car!!! should I use the other side which is a plus and a minus??? A confused mind!

Is my best male friend making a move on me or someone else?! Help?!?

I say forget about you two having a relationship. He sounds like he's playing around. If he was serious about you, he wouldn't be messing around with other women, especially since you've known each other for a year. Once a person shows you who they are the first time, believe it. I try and stick by this statement. He's already shown you what type of person he is. He sounds like a player and players usually don't ever change.

Guys- I have a moral dilema on my hands...! non virgins help me please!!!?

I had one casual date w/ this guy. but it sort of turned into a hookup, which i wasnt excpecting. we made out, layed down on the couch, cuddled, then he put his hands inbetween my legs, i had to cross them to tell him no without sayin it! he put his hands on my and in my back pocket. we rented a movie so it was all dark and watnot. by the end of the night he talks of his commitment issues. the same night he tells me how much he enjoyed the date and really likes my body, & he wants to have really bad cuz i made him horny as hell! he is really good looking but i told him its not gonna work cuz I need commitment, its my virginity were talkin about! he said he lost his but not completely cuz he did ***?! but he went 4 20 minutes??! so he wasnts to "officially" loose it. but he still talks to me & somehow we end up talkin of t. he thinks it will "entice a relationship between us" BUT I wana date him as it is! he says hes awful @ havin a gf!? we talked for 5 hrs online last night about all of this...I wana find someone else but every time I think of us havin I cant help but wana talk to him..he says things like, ‘u turn me on so much on friday, what am i gonna do?!’

Natural cure for a cat infection?

My mother in laws cat has an infection on her rear genital area. it is pink, appears to be missing hair and looks a bit swollen. her rear area looks very wet but im not sure if it is from leakage or just from her licking all the time to clean it. There is also an odor. The mother in law is from El Salvador so she believes in natural remedies and doesn't have enough for a vet anyway. We would help out but we are also broke. The cat is an outdoor only cat if this helps. any suggestions would be appreciated for we are very concerned about her well being. she also seems to have lost a little weight possibly due to this infection. She is an older cat as well. I believe it could be a uti infection but im not sure if its something more serious. If anyone knows what it might be and how to cure it, please let me know. And thanks in advance.

What is actually involved in mortgage repossession?

well,basically,the lender re posse's the house,and gives it over to the agent for resale,and then goes about trying to get something back from the mortgagee,but he will most likely be cled as bankrupt,some people know they are in trouble,but don't seem to take any action before it gets worse,as if its going to go away.