HELP! BOI PROMBLEMZ!!!!?

i really like my ex-bf (i broke up w/ him.) but,, i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY like this other guy, who really likes me AND IS SOOOO DAMN CUTE unlike my ex... but, i want i dude that LOVES pokemon. i know, im the worlds BIGGEST dork. what do i do, peoplez!? new, old, other??? can i even get this new guy to luv pokemon like me? when i see my ex soon do i act like werre just hangin' and were friends, and do i go up aand totally suck face w/ him? he likes this other girl, whos ssssssooooooo lame. or do i get this other guy who likes me (who is cute and is more like me) and do i kiss him?